There’s no perfect order when it comes to handling things after someone dies — but sometimes the scariest part is simply knowing where to start.
If you're feeling frozen, unsure, or overwhelmed by the admin that follows loss, here’s a gentle place to begin.
1. Get the death certificate
This is usually the key to unlocking everything else.
Whether it’s closing bank accounts, claiming insurance, or notifying providers — most organisations will ask for a copy.
2. Secure important documents
Look for:
The will
Identification (passport, driver licence)
Marriage or birth certificates
Insurance policies
A list of accounts or subscriptions (if one exists)
Start a folder. It doesn't need to be perfect — it just needs to be in one place.
3. Notify key people
You don’t have to tell everyone straight away, but it helps to loop in:
The lawyer (if there’s a will or estate plan)
Banks or financial advisors
Insurance companies
Workplaces or superannuation funds
Make a note of who you’ve contacted and what they’ve asked for. It’ll help reduce future stress.
4. Pause what can wait
Not everything is urgent.
If a task isn’t time-sensitive, give yourself permission to set it aside.
Let your grief guide your pace — not the paperwork.
5. Ask for help
You don’t have to carry this alone. Whether it’s a trusted friend, family member, or someone like me at Fairlight — support is here.
No question is too small. No stage is too late.
You don’t have to do it all today. You just have to begin.
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